Sunday, August 11, 2013

SOMETIMES THINGS ARE JUST STRANGE


      I knew something was afoot when I crossed the parking lot this morning and saw one lone person sitting outside. She was on the homeless-resident side and she was reading, not smoking. There wasn't another soul in sight. On such a pleasant morning, that was very odd.
       The pre-release fellow that I find so charming was chatting with Cutie Gatekeeper, and there was one fellow in the dining room helping Doug rearrange the tables. When that was finished, Mr. Charming came in there, sat down, and began to read.
       Doug had everything we needed for lunch and for dinner. For lunch there was donated spaghetti and garlic bread, and donated $9 deli sandwiches! We served peaches and potato chips with those. For dinner, Doug had filled a giant pot with canned beef stew, and he was cooking more beef to add to it. Of course he had the Sunday-night green beans simmering and some fat biscuits ready for the oven.
       There was a box of sandwiches already made, so I sacked them with drinks and chips and cookies—about 35. Some doofus had raided a lunch sack in the fridge and removed just one sandwich from the zip-lock baggie that held two... it was a WORKER doofus of course. Boy, was Doug mad... again.
       Cutie Gatekeeper spent a very long time in the kitchen today, chatting it up with Doug. Apparently, they had a lot of shelter-scoop to catch up on. And that brings me to the thing that was afoot. One of our pre-release was filmed hurling a deadly weapon at Mr. Charming, and the hurler was sent back to the big house. Sounds like a good thing, right? No. Now Mr. Charming has established himself as a "rat." The others aren't speaking to him. It was creepy, watching him eat his lunch alone, and sad. It was sad. As Cutie said, "Every one of those guys has come from prison where everybody is a rat. Who do they think they are?"
       Still, none of us has experienced prison life, so I guess we really can't speak to these behaviors. I want to believe that by next Sunday, the brouhaha will have settled down, and folks will have gotten on with their lives.
       Our homeless were movingly tattered today—unkempt—unhealthy—appearing stuck in the misery of their lives, with no way out. I'm especially fond of one very pretty young woman who's been there for several months, and who speaks of waiting for her disability to come through. She's intelligent, she's so pretty, she's humble and kind… it's just impossible to SEE a disability from my side of the serving counter.
       Our extra-large she man was at lunch and in good spirits. Looks like there's been some weight loss. Still, where does he/she fit in, in the real world? Hard to imagine where—with just a few (and rotten) teeth, so much girth, and the ever-present gender issue. How far can such a person get with only "good spirits?"
       So yesterday I was told that we had two new little girls at the shelter (and we do). I was so excited! I packed my toy bag with special things for them and for my boy. Not one child came to lunch. Heck, we didn't even have anybody who was childlike at lunch!
       I wrapped up all the duties I could lay my hands on by 12:30. Again Doug thanked me for my help. Again, I assured him I had fun… it was different, but of all the places I could choose to be on Sunday morning, this one is best.
       I expect to be away next Sunday, and I'll surely miss my people. Have a good week.

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